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TAKE A PEEK BEHIND THE SCENES

& INTO MY BRAIN-  THIS BLOG IS BASICALLY MY PERSONAL THERAPIST

SPRINKLED WITH SOME DIYS SO PEOPLE ACTUALLY READ IT )


BIZ crush

Have you ever stumbled upon a business idea so genius that it stops you in your tracks, makes you drop everything just to find out more, drive a few hours just to partake in the genius-ness, and then write a blog post about it because you just want everyone to know?

Enter Michelle (AKA Thrift Stylist exclusively at Arc's Value Village).

She & her team of stylists work on an appointment basis to basically take all the hard work out of thrift shopping. They scour the store (your choice of 5 locations), set aside a curated arrangement of awesome and all you have to do is try it on and buy.

I told you it was genius!

On the day of my appointment I had one foot in the Minneapolis store when I saw Michelle walking towards me- huge beaming smile, the cutest blonde bob, & the most epic neon neoprene skirt I've ever seen in my life. That's when I knew for sure I was in good hands.

The style profile I had filled out prior was ALL over the board- exclaiming that I loved loud floral prints, but was really more of a minimalist. Only heaven (& Michelle) knows how, but she deciphered my crazy brain, pulled an array of fabulousness & I shopped to my heart's content all while receiving outfit ideas & killer styling suggestions.

I walked out with an arm load of new finds (2 pairs of shoes-which I DIYed here, 2 jackets, a pair of jeans, 4 tops, a hunk of vintage fabric & a piece of jewelry) for just over $50. $50!

You chew on that while Michelle tells us more:

Photo by Jasna Burza

What kind of kid were you growing up?

When I was a kid, I spent a lot of time at my grandparents’ house. Their little house on the lake was my happy place. Inside, it was filled with special trinkets and memorabilia from their nearly 70 years of marriage and travels all over the world. Both were collectors and they especially loved any opportunity to share the rich stories behind the things they collected. My Grandpa collected lots of odd, quirky things; my Grandma did too. But one thing I cherished most that she collected was ceramic creamers – especially unique ones shaped like different animals. She had hundreds of them lining the shelves in her small kitchen. When we slept over at Grandma & Grandpa’s, it was always a special treat for each grandchild to carefully select the creamer they wanted to use for their morning oatmeal or cereal. Grandma would always have a story to tell about how she’d acquired that particular creamer, whether it was a special gift or something she’d picked up at a flea market while traveling.

I think my grandparents’ love of things and the stories the things tell translated into a love of thrifting for me. Every piece in a thrift or vintage shop has a history and a story and there’s something romantic about that. And every once in awhile while I’m secondhand shopping, I’ll stumble upon an old creamer on the shelf just like the ones my grandma used to collect and it brings it all full circle.

Walk us through the process of how you came up with the idea for your business.

One of my first jobs as a teen was as a cashier at the Arc’s Value Village in New Hope; there I developed a love for the eclectic, unpredictable and adventurous world of thrifting.

Over the years, I built a wardrobe full of thrifted finds. What really jazzed me was the ability to create a look that reflected current trends, but wasn’t a cookie-cutter replication of the mannequins at the mall. And what jazzed me even more was the ability to create this unique look for so much less!

When people took notice of my personal style or complimented me on something I wore, I reveled in the opportunity to say, “Thanks, I got it at the thrift store!”

The familiar response I got to that declaration is what inspired me to create the personal shopping service, which is now offered exclusively at Arc’s Value Village. The response was always the same, “I wish I could find things like that at the thrift store; I just don’t have the eye for it,” or “I get so overwhelmed at the thrift store; I just don’t have the patience to sift through all those racks.”

I created this service for that very reason. I wanted to create a service that bridged the thrifting gap, allowing those who have felt overwhelmed, intimidated or uninspired by the thrift experience, another way to engage. I wanted to give those folks a reason to give secondhand a second chance.

Who’s positively influenced your path the most?

I’ve had a lot of mentors and cheerleaders over the years. My mom is one of my biggest fans and always pushes me to do and be better.

Favorite part about being your own boss?

People always assume I am my own boss, but I’m not. I have an incredible boss who I admire a great deal. My boss trusts me to do right by our organization and allows me plenty of free reign to explore & try new ideas to advance our business initiatives.

Most challenging thing about your role?

The independence in my work can be great, but sometimes it’s challenging too. When you’re a remote employee and you’re not always in the office with your colleagues, you can sometimes feel siloed. When I feel that way, I seek out projects where I can work more interactively with others.

How do you get your creative juices flowing?

I make time for creativity and brainstorming. It’s an important part of my workflow. I look at fashion magazines or blogs, I read business articles, I listen to podcasts, I talk to my friends who’s love of ideas and innovation parallel mine.

If you could be a fly on the wall to anyone’s creative space {dead or alive} who would it be?

I can’t even begin to answer this question! I couldn’t think of just one person! But I would love an opportunity to be a fly on the wall in almost anyone’s creative space – it’s so inspiring to observe creatives and learn their process!

Exclusive finds from Arc's Value Village as seen on Instagram

Talk about a failure you’ve learned from.

I can’t think of a specific failure I’ve had (but don’t get me wrong, there’ve been plenty of failures and missteps along the way!). But, thanks to some great career mentors, I’ve learned a few things over the last year or so that have really changed my approach to my work. I have a better understanding now of what kind of leader I want to be and how I can use my influence to lift people up and elevate great ideas and opportunities - and all of that with kindness and grace.

What’s one of your proudest accomplishments in business?

Being recognize as a 40 Under 40 Honoree by the Minneapolis St. Paul Business Journal was really rewarding for me.

What do you wish you knew when you first started that you know now?

I think until recently, I considered my success a result of a lucky break. I know now that my success is because I am smart, capable and brave and I know how important it is to trust my instincts.

What’s next / What are you most excited about?

I’m excited that my styling team is growing! We’ve recently added several new stylists to our team to meet appointment demand. I’m excited about new opportunities to connect Arc’s Value Village with our local fashion scene.

Photo by Ellen Lawson of City Pages

Time of the day you are most productive:

When my toddler sleeps

The app you couldn’t live without:

Google Drive

Social media outlet you love most:

Instagram

Favorite account to follow on this outlet:

Favorite Pandora station at the moment:

I prefer talk radio

Who would you like to see featured on a postage stamp?

My girl crush Beyonce

Go to piece in your wardrobe:

For summer, I’m finding myself grabbing for my white denim jeans with a fringed hem quite often

Favorite Netflix binge:

I need something new to binge, recommendations please!

Most amazing thing you’ve ever discovered at Arc’s:

Oh my gosh, there’s no way I could pick just one thing. It’s all relative. Every day there’s something amazing!

See more from Michelle: Instagram | Facebook


These days I view my wardrobe a bit differently. As I've been tidying my closet in attempts to clear out the stuff I don't like to wear, I've stumbled upon a few pieces that have potential to go from duds to faves with a little TLC.

My view on shopping has also changed thanks to a visit with the OG Thrift Stylist. A recent adventure with Michelle opened my eyes to a new way of thrifting {& some new shoes that could use some love... and fringe}.

Keep reading to see how I brought these three pairs back to life.

My obsession with fringey footwear is no secret {psst- have you seen this DIY yet?} So the thought of just adding a few tassels here was a no brainer. Not to mention it's an upgrade that even the most un-crafty can complete.

These goofy oxfords are more like a #shoegoal for me. It takes some serious outfit effort to pull them off and not look like I raided my grandma's closet. However, this new addition certainly helps.

Plus they kind of look like this ultra fancy $395 version. I paid $14.99 for the shoes & added 3 tassels to each.

Round 2: same thing, different shoe. Literally all you have to do is string a couple tassels on the laces. Instant fancy.

This last pair is a different story & not for the faint of heart when it comes to needlepoint. Although, it's quite possible that figuring out what sort of design to complete took longer than the actual stitching itself.

My obsession with embroidery continues and the perforations on this leather loafer reminded me of a recent project including some serious cross stitch.

Start off with nailing down a color palette & searching for some inspiration. Something neutral is perfect for me & I LOVE this woven pattern.

I mapped out a few lines with chalk by basically playing "connect the dots" and then just started stitching to somewhat mimic the design on the inspiration photo. Voila!

It's funny how the simplest of changes can change your perspective towards your closet. Suddenly I'm slipping on the shoes I was so close to giving away the other day.

Inspired? Show me how you get crafty with the hashtag #upcyclingiscool


BIZ crush

Marisa is a social media super star. We met via Instagram when her colorful photos, love for tassels and adventures through NYC caught my eye. She's currently planning a wedding that would make your Pinterest page jealous (there are llamas involved- that's all I'm going to say) & she's always got something crafty up her sleeve (just past her kick ass arm party AKA bracelet stack).

After collaborating on a few AMAZE-BALLS DIYs, I had to find out a bit more. I think you'll enjoy what she had to say as much as I did.

What kind of kid were you growing up?

I’ve pretty much been the same person my whole life: enthusiastic, outgoing and creative. I was pretty loud and hyper into my teens, but I finally learned to dial it back and channel my “passion” into my work.

I knew since eight years old that I wanted to work in fashion and even “designed” a line of girls’ clothes called Designs by Marisa at that age. My dad and I put together a whole marketing plan for it. I meant business even back then!

In high school, I spearheaded lots of themed parties for my friends and me: color schemed New Year’s parties, an Asian themed dinner party, even a rock’n’roll Sweet 16 for myself, which my best friend’s family was nice enough to let me throw at their house, live band and all!

So yeah, I’m pretty much the same color loving, hair-brained scheming chick I’ve always been.

How did that affect your path towards blogging?

I began writing about fashion in high school after I realized that editorial was my calling. I had a column in my high school newspaper and began interning in fashion at age 17. My dream back then was to intern at Teen Vogue, which I did the summer after my freshman year of college.

I started The Neon Tea Party 1.0 during my sophomore year when I realized I could make a website in minutes and share my musings on my own branded platform. I wrote on that site on and off for years, utilizing it for different purposes based on what was going on in my life and career at the moment: chronicling my time abroad in Paris, using the site a platform for my styling and editorial work, developing writing samples for job prospects, etc.

I stopped blogging when I was hired to be a full time editorial content manager at a jewelry company, but I’d always kept The Neon Tea Party name as my Instagram handle and as a brand I could always come back to.

Being blessed and cursed with an entrepreneurial spirit (both of my parents are/were entrepreneurs themselves), I decided a year or so ago to bring back TNTP in a real way and turn it into my livelihood. TNTP is basically just a manifestation of all the millions of fluorescent-hued, tasselicious ideas floating around in my brain.

If your story could fit into a 30 second commercial, how would it go down?

Girl loves color, crafting and globally inspired goods. Girl has a million zillion ideas swirling around her brain. Girl educates herself on all facets of building a brand. Girl dives head-first into a pool made up of her dreams and never looks back. (All with an incredible group of friends, family and fiancé cheering her on!)

What ultimately made you decide to do the lovely thing you do?

They say not to start a business unless your body aches with passion about the idea. (Okay, maybe I’m paraphrasing a bit.) But seriously, unless your ideas come from deep within your soul, you’re not going to get very far. Trust.

I ultimately decided to pursue The Neon Tea Party because it is my professional calling in life. I just know it in my bones. I had been interviewing for jobs all while starting up TNTP 2.0, and when they asked me about my ultimate career goal, the answer was always to start my own company. With this on my mind, plus major encouragement from my fiancé, I said “f*** it,” stopped the job hunt, and hired myself to grow this dream.

Who’s positively influenced your path the most?

If I had to pick one person, it would be my fiancé, Sam. I honestly don’t think I’d have the guts to go for it if it weren’t for his belief in me and everything TNTP is capable of becoming. Beyond Sam, I’d have to give a shout out to my last boss Ali Galgano for her belief in me on soo many levels and entrusting me with an enormous amount of responsibility at times I didn’t think I could handle it (but I did!). And finally, all of my friends, friends of friends, Instagram friends, etc. who genuinely and effortlessly understand what TNTP is all about and support the vision. The amount of screenshots of llamas, Frida Kahlo paraphernalia, and pompom covered goodies people send me is insane! People I haven’t spoken to in years might send me something that reminded them of TNTP. These moments confirm that there is a real brand vision here and real long-term potential for success.

Favorite part about working for yourself?

My favorite part of being my own boss is that I get to be motivated by my own vision and work towards bringing that vision to life everyday. When I’ve worked for other people, I’ve often created my own vision within their vision and worked towards that. Eventually I realized I needed to establish my own dream and apply my inexhaustible work ethic towards that. There is almost nothing more satisfying.

Most challenging thing about working for yourself?

Time management, for sure. Especially since I work for myself without any employees or anyone else to report to, every day is what I want to make of it. Some days that reality is amazing amazing amazing, and other days leaves me overwhelmed or stumped as to how to make the most of my day. Like most entrepreneurs, I’m incredibly hard on myself. I know that my time is my most valuable asset and how I choose to use it is something I need to take very seriously in order to achieve all these goals floating around in my brain.

How do you get your creative juices flowing?

Two ways: by immersing myself in inspiration or by making stuff with no real goal in mind.

I’m blessed to live in New York City, so a walk around a cool neighborhood can lead to dozens of new ideas (or, at very least, Instagram material!). Pinterest is also my BFF, so I’ll often hunker down with the platform when I’m generating ideas for a new project.

Regarding making, I find that bringing to life some of the ideas that have been chilling in my head for too long lead to more ideas or simply the satisfaction of having created something awesome.

If you could be a fly on the wall to anyone’s creative space {dead or alive} who would it be?

Oh man, there are so many answers to this question. Currently, I am simply just in awe of other lifestyle brands that have grown from blogs and the wonder that is Instagram. Oh Joy’s Joy Cho, Cupcakes & Cashmere’s Emily Schuman, The Jungalow’s Justina Blakeney and Studio DIY’s Kelly Mindell are just some of the women that inspire me everyday and help guide the vision for my business. I’m dying to meet with these girlbosses to learn their secret sauces and how to grow TNTP to that magnitude.

Frida Kahlo, Jenna Lyons, Leandra Medine, Vivanna Volpicella, Linda Rodin and Taylor Tomasi Hill are just some of my creative, forever homegirls whose homes, offices/studios, closets and moodboards I’d kill to see IRL! I’m DEFINITELY missing people because in general, I’m incredibly fascinated (read: girl crush-y) with cool female creatives, and I’m constantly acquiring new loves.

Talk about a failure you’ve learned from.

I’ve heard that most entrepreneurs don’t succeed until their third business endeavor. I like to think that TNTP is number three for me (let’s hope!!). A friend and I created a lifestyle magazine in college—which is still alive and kicking!—however, I had never started something like that before and there are so many things I would have done differently about the management of the organization if I started it now. The last company I worked for was also very much an entrepreneurial experience. When I was hired, I was one of five employees and was in a bit over my head for a while. Between these two experiences, there are countless mistakes I made and learned from. All of those lessons I’ve taken with me to TNTP and continue to apply every day, everything from time management and delegation to professionalism and presentation, as well as tactical concepts like marketing, branding and networking.

What’s one of your proudest accomplishments in business?

Landing my first sponsored content! This happened very recently, albeit through a connection, but ultimately the partner agreed to pay me to produce content for them based on the quality of my work. And not only that, they genuinely loved the finished product! This single accomplishment has confirmed my faith in TNTP as a viable business. There’s seriously nothing more rewarding than people not only understanding but also wanting what you put out there!

What do you wish you knew when you first started that you know now?

Man, I don’t know that I’ve been doing TNTP long enough to be able to give a good answer. The one thing, though, that I always tell myself is that it’s all going to work out exactly how it’s supposed to. That’s not to say you can kick back and think opportunities are just going to fall from the sky—quite the contrary. But if you pursue what you love, what your soul calls you to do, and you work tirelessly towards that vision, great things are bound to happen.

How did you land on the name “the neon tea party”?

It’s kind of a silly story. Back in the day when Facebook would ask you to list your interests, I went a little crazy and must have shared 50 things I love—everything from friendship bracelets to Led Zeppelin. Well when I was looking for a name for TNTP 1.0, I looked at this list and “neon” came before “tea parties” and something just clicked. “The Neon Tea Party” seemed to sum up everything I love aesthetically. And it doesn’t hurt that it lends itself to a broad lifestyle theme, rather than JUST fashion or JUST crafting. I think having a strong name is half the battle and I am so relieved to have found mine early on.

What’s next / What are you most excited about?

Right now I’m working on redesigning my site to be a bit more sophisticated and dynamic, which I’m so stoked about! By the end of the year I plan to launch branded crafting/networking parties called Neon Tea Parties plus an online shop for handmade goods, globally sourced items and craft supplies. Stay tuned!!

Time of the day you are most productive:

First thing in the morning and late at night. I’m a night owl by nature, but you can’t argue that a fresh brain is a productive brain.

The app you couldn’t live without:

Instagram. Duh. But A Color Story and Planoly are my faves for editing and planning my content!

Social media outlet you love most:

Pinterest all the way.

Favorite Pandora station at the moment:

I’m a Spotify girl, actually! I’ve been listening to a lot of Bollywood music lately after dancing at my best friend’s big fat Indian wedding a couple months ago.

Who would you like to see featured on a postage stamp?

Frida!! Or a llama.

Go to piece in your wardrobe:

JEANS! Also white t-shirts, stripes, a bracelet stack, and these boots, which are the best fashion investment I’ve ever made.

Favorite Netflix binge: I’m still sad I finished Parenthood. That was three months ago.

Where can we find TNTP:

LET'S BE FRIENDS.  LIKE BFF STATUS.

Your info won't be shared with anyone else.  Pinky swear.

Hey, thanks! You're in.

Or just acquaintances who like snarky banter and first dibs on shop drops.

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